The art of dealing with children
The art of dealing with children Children who deal with children need to know the psychological and physical characteristics of each stage of childhood so that they can use the appropriate method of dealing. They should also increase their knowledge about the care and care of the child so that neither increase nor decrease. Moderation is required in everything. Even in the education and attention to children, and methods of art dealing: the education of the child Quran and the Sunnah of the noble Prophet and faith in everything that came with them; they contain morals and good behavior, and teach that there is a day of reckoning therefore must do good deeds To enter paradise, and if the child is still small, it is granulated to be mentioned Paradise to him only and not frighten him from the fire because of his mind in this period does not accommodate fire but must Thabibh good deeds. Keep away from reprimanding the child when he makes a mistake in front of his companions, but try to use the appropriate method, because it may affect the child's psyche and make it isolationist, and the surrounding children may take advantage of these times to harass the child, at the same time should not be neglected so that he feels that before the people will not get To punishment for his misconduct and thus exploits this point. Use the method of dialogue and try to explain the reasons that lead you to make some decisions against him, and more importantly explain his mistake to him and to explain what is right, and instill confidence that the error in the behavior and not in it is. Organize time; so that there is time to play with the child and give it love, there is time for seriousness and firmness, as time regulation helps the child to know that everything has a time, it is not playing all the time. Open the space for the child to play and try to pick non-serious and educational games to integrate the game with science. Use the stimulation method when the child does any good behavior to help him instill such behaviors within him. Staying away from the use of a passive approach and using negative terms such as: "You do not understand", "You are stupid" others, this will generate conviction in the child that these negative qualities can not be changed.
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